STORIES BY MANYAVAR & MOHEY
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Why Do We Celebrate Mother’s Day? The Heartfelt History
Date 30 Apr 2026 Reading time: 7-10 mins
On the second Sunday of May, phones light up, restaurants fill with families, and children of all ages search for the right words to say thank you to the women who raised them. Mother’s Day has become one of the most emotional dates on the calendar—but it did not begin as a commercial holiday. It began with a daughter’s promise to honor her mother’s life’s work.
Today, Indian families mark the day in their own ways—from school-made cards and home-cooked meals to flowers, sarees, and small get-togethers. Behind every celebration, though, is the same impulse: to pause and acknowledge a love that usually stays in the background. Understanding where Mother’s Day comes from makes that thank you feel even more meaningful.
The modern origin: a daughter named Anna Jarvis
The story of Mother’s Day we know today starts in the early 1900s in the United States. Anna Jarvis was deeply inspired by her mother, Ann Reeves Jarvis, who had spent her life working with women and children in her community—organizing “Mothers’ Day Work Clubs” to care for families during difficult times.
Before she passed away, Ann expressed a simple wish: that there should be a day to honor the sacrifices mothers make. After her mother’s death in 1905, Anna decided to turn that wish into reality.
- In May 1908, she organized the first official Mother’s Day service at a church in Grafton, West Virginia, and another event in Philadelphia, where thousands attended to remember and celebrate their mothers.
- Anna chose white carnations as the flower of the day because they were her mother’s favorite and symbolized pure love.
Her campaign did not stop there. For years, Anna wrote letters, met leaders, and worked tirelessly to establish a national day dedicated to mothers.
In 1914, her efforts were recognized when US President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day, a national holiday to honor “the best mother in the world—your mother.” What began as one daughter’s tribute slowly became a day observed across the country.
Other “mother” celebrations around the world
While Anna Jarvis shaped the modern Mother’s Day with a fixed date and format, honoring mothers is not a new idea. Many cultures had their own ways of celebrating motherhood long before the 1900s.
- In parts of Europe, Mothering Sunday was celebrated centuries ago as a day when people returned to their “mother church” and often spent time with their families. Over time, it came to be associated with honoring mothers, too.
- Various traditions around the world have festivals or rituals that place mothers and mother figures at the center, even if they do not use the name “Mother’s Day” or fall in May.
What Anna Jarvis did was to bring this sentiment into a specific, widely recognized day that people across countries could mark together, each in their own style.
How Mother’s Day reached India
In India, the idea of Mother’s Day began to spread, mainly through the media, schools, and urban culture, in the late 20th century and early 2000s. As global content, television, magazines, and later social media became more accessible, families started noticing how the second Sunday of May was being marked in other countries. Slowly, it found its place in Indian calendars too.
Unlike some Western countries, where Mother’s Day has a longer institutional history, in India, it is less about official declarations and more about personal choice. Schools organize small functions, children prepare songs and handmade cards, brands run heartfelt campaigns, and families decide for themselves how to make the day special at home.
What made Mother’s Day resonate so quickly here is that it matched something India already believes deeply—that mothers hold a sacred place in the family and in society.
Motherhood and gratitude in Indian culture
Long before the second Sunday of May became popular, Indian culture had many ways of placing mothers at the center of respect and devotion.
- The phrase “Matru Devo Bhava” (the mother is like God) emphasizes that a mother’s love and sacrifices are among the purest forms of care.
- In everyday life, many children touch their mother’s feet for blessings before important events. Mothers are often the first ones people inform or seek comfort from in both success and struggle.
- Some traditions and regional festivals include special prayers or acts of gratitude towards mothers and mother figures, even if they are not called Mother’s Day.
Because of this cultural backdrop, Mother’s Day in India does not feel like an imported idea as much as a formal reminder—a date that nudges people to express what is already felt but not always spoken.
How Mother’s Day is celebrated in India today
Today, Mother’s Day in India is widely recognized, especially in cities and towns, but the way families celebrate it is very personal. There is no single “right” way.
Some common ways people mark the day include:
- Small surprises at home
- Breakfast or chai prepared for her instead of by her.
- Children decorating a corner of the house, writing notes, or making handmade cards.
- Playing her favorite music, watching her favorite films, or revisiting old albums together.
- Family outings
- Lunches, dinners, or outings where she does not have to plan, cook, or host—she simply shows up and enjoys.
- Visiting places she likes: a temple, a park, a café, and a nearby trip.
- Gifts chosen with care
- Flowers, books, sarees, jewelry, outfits, self-care hampers, and experiences are all popular gifts.
- Many people also gift time and acts of service—a day where she does not touch the sink or the stove, or a promise to share responsibilities more regularly.
- Celebrating mothers who are far away
- Long calls, video chats, and couriered gifts when children live in different cities or countries.
- Extended families sending messages, photos, and videos to stay emotionally close.
In many homes, the day becomes less about grand gestures and more about a simple question: “What would make her feel most relaxed and appreciated today?”
Why a single day still matters
It is easy to ask, “Why celebrate mothers on just one day when they do so much all year?” The answer is simple: Mother’s Day is not meant to be a day of gratitude. It is meant to prompt it.
- Life gets busy. Work, school, routines, and responsibilities can make it easy to take even the most important people for granted. A fixed date acts like a pause button, reminding everyone to stop and acknowledge her.
- For younger children, it becomes a gentle way to learn appreciation—through school activities, stories, and small rituals they can understand.
- For grown-up children and families, it becomes a moment to say the things that do not always get said aloud: “Thank you”, “I remember what you did for me”, “I see how much you carry.”
No single Sunday can balance years of sleepless nights, worry, care, and effort. But it can create a memory she returns to—a day where she was the focus, not the organizer.
Mother’s Day beyond mothers
Over time, the meaning of Mother’s Day has also grown to include:
- Grandmothers who helped raise children.
- Aunts, sisters, guardians, and caregivers who played a mother’s role.
- Single fathers or other family members stepped into that space when needed.
For many people, Mother’s Day is also a day to remember mothers who are no longer physically present but remain deeply loved. Lighting a candle, revisiting an old saree, cooking her favorite recipe, or simply speaking about her can all become part of the day’s rituals.
The heart of the day is not just biology. It is anyone whose care has shaped a life.
What Mother’s Day means in the Manyavar–Mohey world
At its core, Mother’s Day is about celebrating the people who taught us what love, patience, and resilience look like in everyday life. Manyavar and Mohey exist for moments exactly like these—when emotion, tradition, and togetherness come together in small but powerful ways.
Some families mark the day in simple clothes at home, some dress up for a special outing, and some pull out their most cherished outfits for photos they know they will treasure. Whatever the plan, the feeling is the same: she is being honored.
In a culture where celebrations are often large, loud, and centered on major life events, Mother’s Day is a slightly quieter affair. It is not about rituals or guest lists. It is about a promise—to notice her, to thank her, and to remember that behind every festival, every milestone, and every big day, there was usually a mother making sure everyone else was ready.
That is why we celebrate Mother’s Day. Not because one Sunday can ever be enough—but because it gives us one more chance to tell her, with all our heart: you matter, and you always have.




